Leonard Fong Roka
In the Nasioi society of Bougainville there is a saying for
males that goes: ‘when you fuck a woman, you must know that you are fucking a
garden, a house and everything that will sustain you both’. This is associated
with marriage.
This wisdom really is a norm in Central Bougainville to
South Bougainville; unlike the north, it is not that evident. And in the
proverb above, it is the situation where it tells a man that ‘he is fucking a
house the moment he is naked on his woman’ that is the catch phrase here.
In most Bougainville communities in Nasioi, Koromira, Eivo,
Nagovis, Banoni and Siwai (areas I am familiar with) the village concept is
dying out rapidly. In the post crisis Bougainville, hardly there is a village
community in existence in these communities.
The 10-year Bougainville civil conflict did contributed to
the rapid dying of the village systems. The crisis scattered people into
refugee camps away from the coasts or into the PNG held care centers thus
disturbing the harmonious progress of village living.
But in Buin I discovered such massive villages especially
Oria, Laguai and Malabita but the proverb still is prevalent in these villages.
In today’s Bougainville homes are being erected within the
extended or nuclear family circles. Males in the family turn to make these
isolated and family based homesteads into something of a village scale to the
distant eyes.
In the Nasioi society it is evident that little boys as
young as six years turn to force their parents or brothers to built them
one-room houses. This is a culture referred to as avakori in Nasioi which means baby-works (both boys’ tiny houses or
girls’ little gardens are referred to as avakori).
Avakori, especially for younger girls’ gardens, when their
brothers or parents support it, contribute to the sustenance of the family.
There is this spirit of independence or self reliance for
the youngsters with the old tradition of avakori. Males are equipped to built
own homes and females are real independent to make gardens that sustains their
families when marriage is reached.
For myself, I did begin to do avakori in the peak of the
Bougainville crisis in 1992 in the Kupe village. Influenced by my peer grouping, I began making
my own garden backed by my mother and late in 1993, I began a house of my own
supported by a relative.
In my Tumpusiong Valley with modern materials and money from
gold is at hand, male kids are well engaged with avakori of little houses (as photographed (above) is my cousin, Tabekau, in
his own house that also has electricity supplied ) and females also running
parallel with their interests.
This has led to change in the said areas where the young are
becoming the breadwinners since in their families or they are more financially
independent and not being fed by their parents.
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